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    • ISBN:9781472120441
    • Publication date:06 Oct 2016
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Overcoming Social Anxiety and Shyness, 2nd Edition

A self-help guide using cognitive behavioural techniques

By Gillian Butler

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The updated new edition of the bestselling self-help guide Overcoming Social Anxiety and Shyness

Everyone feels foolish, embarrassed, judged or criticised at times, but this becomes a problem when it undermines your confidence and prevents you from doing what you want to do. Extreme social anxiety and shyness can be crippling but they are readily treated using Cognitive Behavioural Therapy (CBT).

In this fully revised and updated edition, Dr Gillian Butler provides a practical, easy-to-use self-help course which will be invaluable for those suffering from all degrees of social anxiety.

Overcoming self-help guides use effective therapeutic techniques to treat long-standing and disabling conditions, both psychological and physical. Many guides in the Overcoming series are recommended under the Reading Well Books on Prescription scheme.

Biographical Notes

GILLIAN BUTLER is a retired consultant clinical psychologist and Fellow of the British Psychological Society, who used to practise in the Oxfordshire Mental Healthcare Trust.

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  • ISBN: 9781472120434
  • Publication date: 06 Oct 2016
  • Page count: 400
  • Imprint: Robinson
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