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The Jealousy Cure

Learn to Trust, Overcome Possessiveness, and Save Your Relationship

By Robert L. Leahy

  • Paperback
  • £12.99

Could jealousy actually be a positive thing? In this groundbreaking book, Robert L. Leahy-author of the hugely popularself-help guide, The Worry Cure-invites readers to gain a greater understanding of their jealous feelings, keep jealousy from hijacking their thoughts, and ultimately build healthyrelationships.

Could jealousy be a positive thing? In this groundbreaking book, Robert L. Leahy-author of the hugely popular self-help guide, The Worry Cure-invites you to gain a greater understanding of your jealous feelings, keep jealousy from hijacking your life, and create healthier relationships.

We've all heard tales of the overly jealous spouse or significant other. Maybe we've even been that jealous person, though we may not want to admit it. It's hard to imagine anyone sailing through life without either having feelings of jealousy or being the target of someone's jealousy. But what if jealousy isn't just a neurotic weakness? What if it signals that your relationship matters to you? In short-what if jealousy serves a purpose?

In The Jealousy Cure, renowned psychologist Robert L. Leahy takes a more nuanced approach to tackling feelings of jealousy. In this compelling book, you'll uncover the evolutionary origins of jealousy, and how and why it's served to help us as a species. You'll also learn practices based in emotional schema theory, cognitive behavioral therapy (CBT), acceptance and commitment therapy (ACT), and mindfulness to help you overcome the shame jealousy can bring, improve communication with your partner, and ultimately make room for jealousy while also making your relationship more meaningful. You will learn that confronting jealousy in your relationship does not have to be a catastrophe, but can redirect you and your partner to build more trust, acceptance, and connection.

We often feel jealous because we fear losing the things or people that matter to us the most. With this insightful guide, you'll discover how jealousy can both help and hurt your relationship, and learn proven-effective skills to keep jealousy in its place.

Biographical Notes

Robert L. Leahy, PhD, is author or editor of twenty-six books, including The Worry Cure. He has led or been heavily involved with many national and regional cognitive behavioral therapy (CBT) organizations. He writes a regular blog for Psychology Today and has written for the Huffington Post. Leahy is an international speaker at conferences worldwide and has been featured in print, radio, and television media such as The New York Times, The Wall Street Journal, The Times of London, The Washington Post, 20/20, The Early Show, and more.

Foreword writer Paul Gilbert, PhD, is world renowned for his work on depression, shame, and self-criticism. and is the developer of compassion-focused therapy (CFT). He is head of the mental health research unit at the University of Derby, and has authored or co-authored numerous scholarly articles and books, including The Compassionate Mind, Mindful Compassion, and Overcoming Depression.

  • Other details

  • ISBN: 9781626259751
  • Publication date: 26 Apr 2018
  • Page count: 240
  • Imprint: New Harbinger
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