Ian McDermott and Ian Shircore - Manage Yourself, Manage Your Life - Little, Brown Book Group

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    • ISBN:9781405513395
    • Publication date:15 Dec 2011

Manage Yourself, Manage Your Life

Vital NLP technique for personal well-being and professional success

By Ian McDermott and Ian Shircore

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A practical guide to managing every aspect of one's life.

Are you getting what you want out of life? Do you dream of a more rewarding career? Would you like a happier, more fulfilling relationship?
MANAGE YOURSELF, MANAGE YOUR LIFE is your essential guide for living in the twenty-first century. Based on powerful NLP (neuro-linguistic programming) techniques, this practical handbook will help you create the new life that you deserve.
You will discover how to:
*Identify what you really want in your personal and professional life
*Set clear, achievable goals
*Create more love and happiness in your life
*Be confident and assertive whenever you want
*Handle change effectively
*Use simple communication to improve your relationships
*Make others want to give you their help
*Get back in control of your life

Biographical Notes

Ian McDermott is a leading consultant, trainer and co-author of eight books on personal and professional development. He is regularly featured on TV, radio and the national press. Ian Shirecore trained as a business journalist. Both are certified NLP practitioners.

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  • ISBN: 9780749919900
  • Publication date: 26 Aug 1999
  • Page count: 208
  • Imprint: Piatkus
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