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Getting Back Out There

Secrets to Successful Dating and Finding Real Love after the Big Breakup

By Susan J. Elliott

  • Paperback
  • £9.99

You're ready for a new romance, but how can you avoid repeating past mistakes? The author of Getting Past Your Breakup offers an essential guide to building a healthy relationship.Plenty of dating books offer advice on how to flirt or catch someone's eye, but they won't help you make better decisions during the selection process so you can find real love. Based on years of research and work with her own clients, Susan Elliott offers a proven plan that will help you to:Examine past relationships for unfinished business and negative patternsIdentify warning signs and red flagsKeep your standards and boundaries high, even when you're head over heelsWork through rejection, rebounding, and other bumps in the roadDecide when to take a relationship to the next level and when to say goodbyeWith practical rules, strategies, and self-assessments,including tips for dating as a parent and dating online, Getting Back Out There will help you transition from your split to a happy, healthy new relationship.

The author of Getting Past Your Breakup is back with a proven plan for leaving the big breakup behind, with tools for successful dating and creating happy, healthy love with the right partner

You're ready for a new romance, but how can you avoid repeating past mistakes? The author of Getting Past Your Breakup offers an essential guide to building a healthy relationship.Plenty of dating books offer advice on how to flirt or catch someone's eye, but they won't help you make better decisions during the selection process so you can find real love. Based on years of research and work with her own clients, Susan Elliott offers a proven plan that will help you to:Examine past relationships for unfinished business and negative patternsIdentify warning signs and red flagsKeep your standards and boundaries high, even when you're head over heelsWork through rejection, rebounding, and other bumps in the roadDecide when to take a relationship to the next level and when to say goodbyeWith practical rules, strategies, and self-assessments,including tips for dating as a parent and dating online, Getting Back Out There will help you transition from your split to a happy, healthy new relationship.

Biographical Notes

Susan J. Elliott, JD, MEd is the creator of the Getting Past Your Breakup blog and seminar series. A sought-after relationship commentator, motivational speaker, certified grief counselor, and attorney, she has helped thousands of clients and readers transform their love lives. She lives in New York. GettingPastYourBreakup.com

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  • ISBN: 9780738216836
  • Publication date: 27 Jan 2015
  • Page count: 304
  • Imprint: Da Capo Lifelong Books
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